Start dating after seperation
He may romance you, seduce you, and charm you just like he did in the beginning.
If that doesn’t work he will resort to more drastic measures such as threatening suicide or saying “he cannot live without you”.
Breaking up with a narcissist is an emotional roller coaster.
If you have read other articles or received support from a therapist on how to break up with a narcissist, you will know that the only viable way to do this is with No Contact.
Sticking to your guns of No Contact will initially anger and threaten the narcissist, so expect some new craziness to emerge.
The narcissist is relentless when it comes to securing his sources, and he will use all kinds of manipulative behavior to draw you back into the relationship.
These boomerang cycles and the conquests make him feel alive and give him a thrill.
This is why the narcissist will use every known lure, going to great lengths to reel you back in again, only to immediately revert back to his old behavior after he has succeeded.
A narcissist does not want to be alone and he constantly needs someone to validate him.
The conquest of getting you back is like a drug to him; the narcissist is a junkie when it comes to obtaining his sources of supply.
He needs his fix whether it comes from new narcisstic sources of supply or old sources.
Most likely the individual with NPD will move on quickly.
NPD has no conscience, hence his ability to move on quickly to seek a new victim with more supply.
He will return without offering an apology or explanation. the thrill of power- of conquering and controlling.