He says im too accomadating
We’ve been trying to stifle the Too Much Woman for ions—in our sisters, in our wives, in our daughters.
And even now, even today, we shame the Too Much Woman for her bigness, for her wanting, for her passionate nature.
Okay with the fact that the separated man has baggage from his unresolved marriage because he seems to have everything else together.
Okay with not getting the quality time you desire because “you need a new hobby anyway.” You’ll even convince yourself that it shows dedication and loyalty to be paying Relationships and love aside, you’ll display those same types of behaviors in all other aspects of your life.
The one who loves too hard, feels too deeply, asks too often, desires too much.
She’ll risk all to quell the longings of her heart and body.
Playing the cat-and-mouse dating game can be exhausting.
There she is taking up too much space, with her laughter, her curves, her honesty, her sexuality. There she is causing a ruckus with her persistent wanting, too much wanting.If it feels like he is drifting away, make it clear by where you invest your time that the possibility of losing you is very real—because it should be very real.Men tend to be easily lulled into laziness or else prompted by a call to action.So today, at this very moment, I’ve made peace with my too muchness.I wear it on my sleeve as a disclaimer to those interested: “If you can’t step up, it’s better to step off.” I’ve embraced being too much because I’ve learned that when you expect little and demand little, you get much less than you deserve.
You end up dating and convincing yourself that you’re okay with the fact that he doesn’t know what he wants yet.