Good opening messages for online dating
Good luck out there, and may the words be with you!
[image: via Joi Ito on flickr] Ready for conscious, like-minded individuals you really want to meet?
This will help spark an idea about where to take the message.
Bonus: you’ll find out if you truly want to message this person or if they’re just drawing you in with their physical appearance.
It seems crazy, I know, but take the one or two minutes it takes to actually read the profile.I’ve read your profile, and I think you sound nice…” …is way less engaging than this: “What!! Especially online, when women maybe a little more on-guard, opening with a comment on their physical appearance runs the risk of seeming shallow and off-putting.Besides — if they really are that pretty they’re probably hearing that from every unoriginal guy on the site, and it Sometimes, misguided men will send out first messages that read like autobiographies.When it comes to sending messages many people freak out.They want to say online dating sites give you profiles to work with.