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Chinese dating is just as confusing, and wonderful, as any other type of dating.
For Westerners, a willingness to learn about Chinese culture can make an interracial or international relationship stronger.
alternatively, if we look at how we can describe “traditional” Chinese girls, we may say they are: family centric; studious; strongly loyal to their man; relatively shy/humble; conservative in outlook and demeanour; homely, as in taking care of the home and children, or not working full time; and, finally….., dare I say it, subservient Of course, these “characteristics” can be added to or discussed at length, but the key question is: do you know any Chinese girl these days who neatly fits exactly into one of these categories or the other?
In reality, most Chinese girls I know possess a handful of characteristics from each “list” and, therefore, can be considered as a rather nice blend of the old and the new; our modern, fast paced, constantly changing society has shaped Chinese girls not only to be different physically from that they were 10-15 years ago, but also changed them mentally, their behaviours and their outlook on life.
Issues that often emerge include: You're bound to get into trouble if you assume that for all Chinese, dating is the same.
You'll meet people who were born in the United States and have never lived in China, but who still follow traditional Chinese culture.
Yet, as with many things, the situation has changed and large numbers of Chinese girls now have foreign boyfriend or even husbands… Well, the list of reasons can be quite long but here are just a few, important pointers: a number of Chinese girls feel that a foreign man offers more stability, and is less likely to have a string of girlfriends or affairs; he may, on the whole, treat her better than his Asian counterparts who, in the typically male dominated societies of Asia, are allowed to “get away with” many things considered unacceptable in western culture the career oriented, ‘’go-getter’’ type of Chinese girl who might feel somewhat repressed in her home society can flourish with a foreign man who treats her more like an equal and, probably, actually encourages her career and her lifestyle.
Many Chinese-American women are offended by this idea.
However, the question may arise whether your Chinese girl is a “traditional” or a “modern” woman but even this becomes secondary to the primary “suitability for mating” requirements which our brains have already sub-consciously noted and endorsed!
Still, let’s see if we can define “traditional” and “modern” characteristics that many foreign men perceive as attributable to the two “options” of Chinese girls available: “modern” Chinese girls, it can be argued, may be: outgoing, independent, that is not financially or emotionally dependent on a man or on their family; career minded; well educated; able to live and travel alone; in some cases, not wanting children to impinge on their lifestyle.
But many Chinese-American women share the same complaints about the men who are interested in dating them.
They're tired of being treated like "China dolls," or the stereotype that they're "exotic," and of the fact that some men seem more interested in their looks than their minds.
Increasingly, dating web sites offer chances for Chinese dating.