Dating tip and advice for
You can be shy, short, over weight but still be happy with who you are as an individual. She might give some subtle signals but generally us men will miss them… Women love a guy that’s willing to put his balls on the line, be vulnerable and take action on it. Even if she turns you down, you’ve still won points for having the courage to give it a go.Pretending to be someone you’re not is just communicating you don’t like who you are, so why would she like you? Once you’ve kissed her for the first time, the entire dynamic changes to a much more relaxed one.Even if this isn’t obvious at first, eventually she’s going to see you for who you really are, and attraction will die very quickly. Even if you love star wars, politics, or having your butthole tickled when receiving a blow job. There’s no more awkwardness and it adds a significantly more romantic vibe into the mix. If she’s sitting on the fence, a kiss has the potential to make or break it. The last thing you want is someone that see’s you as a maybe instead of a yes or no. Dinner and movie dates are dull, boring and should be avoided like a bubonic plague infected feminist.Nothing will make you blend in with every other dude out there than picking something dull and uneventful to do on a first date.This led me to interview what felt like nearly one hundred women of all sorts of backgrounds and jobs such as nurses, bar tenders, strippers, artists, a few models and even some accountants.
Not only is it making you look bad, but it’s also showing your holding onto resentment or anger over whatever caused the breakup.
Sometimes it’s just safer to not talk about your ex at all within the first few dates if you don’t have the ability to talk about it briefly and maturely.
A passing comment saying “We just weren’t compatible, didn’t work out, I have no hard feelings” is fine, but most people don’t have the ability to do this since often breakups can get messy.
How you treat others says you’re judgmental, you have low self-esteem because you have to put others down.
All of this communicates you’re a low-value guy, or to put it bluntly, just an asshole.