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Aaron Carter is taking a break from dating after his split from Madison Parker.The 29-year-old singer revealed to Us Weekly that he’s focusing on himself right now amid the ups and downs of the last few weeks.I was laughing at late-night comedians' jokes again. I began hanging out with my friends again and found joy in their concern.The signal that I had healed was that I felt glad to be alive again.They mentioned a few months of introspection as a good start. At first I kept the television on, but I couldn't pay attention — it was just noise.I discovered that quiet music was soothing, so I stretched out on my sofa listening to classical music and allowed my feelings to surface, unrestrained.In time, I realized that ignoring my feelings had just kept the pain alive.My mantra became "Don't think, feel." To my surprise, and great relief, after several months my spirits began to rise.
Healing a broken heart wasn't a day at the beach, but I accomplished it by treating myself with the kindness, compassion and patience I'd show a best friend. And most important, I forgave myself for my part in the failed relationship.
The sage counsel I sorely needed came from my best friends — men who loved me, didn't judge me and supported my need to rebuild my heart and spirit.
I shared my feelings about the breakup openly and honestly, and asked how they had managed their own heartbreaks.
Trying to date immediately after a relationship ends is ill-advised.
While it may be what we are instinctively inclined to do, dating before you are emotionally ready is a recipe for disaster. You're likely to feel awkward, unhappy, anxious and numb — and who wants to date that person?
But I was still addicted to the notion that the only way to make myself feel better was to find someone new.