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Who would knowingly want to put themselves in a position of vulnerability?
That is the reason why many women prefer to be "attractive" and try to motivate the man to approach them.
Rather than "putting yourself out there", get the other person to invest a little first. Or, "could you watch my stuff for a minute while I get a coffee"? I have discussed the reason for this "investment" effect elsewhere (see here and here).
Known as the Ben Franklin Effect, it is the phenomenon where people like others more when they do a favor for them (Jecker & Landry, 1969).
You're NOT asking what they think of YOU in any way.
And yes..people do question others to excess, which is obnoxious For example, think about the woman in the bar who asks you about your suit, watch, the car you drive, what you do for a living, etc.
It can be difficult to know how to talk to girls, guys, women, men, etc.Don't be a "Metro Sexual": This piece of advice has nothing to do with avoiding moisturiser or not waxing your chest, it just refers to the fact it's not a good idea to chat up French girls on public transport such as the Paris Metro. Approaching French girls in the road is also no no - 60 percent of them hate being flirted with when they’re in the streets or on public transport. Essentially, they are opening themselves up to "being judged"...rather than evaluating, qualifying, or screening the other person. Suspend your attraction to them and make them jump through a hoop or two to prove themselves to you. Ask them how they take their coffee (and tease them if it is gross).So, rather than letting them evaluate you...begin by evaluating them instead! Ask them something that will qualify them as a partner and see whether they pass (see here and here). Ask them why they are shopping on a Sunday afternoon. Ask anything..keep it somewhat fun, flirty, and a bit evaluative of THEM.