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Remember, this is not an interactive sex program you are playing with.There are real people on the other side of that screen.Just sending email and having a hot chat does not make you a sub. If this is just a cyber game to you, be sure your partner feels the same way.1) You might want to read a Dommes profile before addressing her in the room most of them specify what they'd like to be called.. t I suggest defaulting to Ms (Screen name) or Ma'am.Many of us don't like being called Mistress by people not our collared subs.
My recommendation, is to say something to the effect of 'With all due respect, Mistress So and So, I am submissive only to the one I've gotten to know and decided to submit to' (or something like that, something gentle) you don't EVER have to submit to anyone except YOUR Mistress but you should always treat a Domme with respect.9) If you were to walk into a crowded bar where everyone was busy talking, went and sat in a corner and meekly said Hi nobody would notice you the same applies here don't just say Hello all.... Hi Miss Bonnie ( hint, I dislike being called Mistress Bonnie unless I own you) 10) Being worthy. Perhaps you should do whatever it takes to make yourself worthy!:) 11) Some people seem to think that being a sub male means being a "Wimp" but I can tell you from first hand experience (Oz is no wimp)..but there aren't that a lot of quality submissive males ,if you are a quality sub... Don't do the cyber kneeling, serving coffee, rubbing feet and other silly crap In the main room (leave it for the dungeon), we don't go for that. its nothing to be ashamed of its unfortunate that many forget they were new once, and look down upon newbie's. Please remember when you are experienced that you were new once.Take the time to demonstrate how intelligent and witty you are. The regulars in Collar Ncuffs will take the time to answer sincere questions. No question is too stupid or silly 8) Some subs here really stand out in Collar Ncuffs.
People who are rudely giving you commands online are probably not real life Dommes, anyway.